Beautiful and sweet. Love and sex with the one we love is the best! And having a family together just deepens it! And on the other side, when our children as young adults begin moving out and we transition back into just being a couple, with that extension of the deep deep love, that too is a brilliant time! Thanks for the writing Abby! It’s always so good! Judi
🥰🥰🥰 I won’t say ‘I can’t wait’ for that stage, because I’d never want to rush through this one, but the way you describe it makes me really stoked to enjoy it, too 🥰🥰🥰 Thanks for reading, as always, Judi!!!
No, never rush through the bliss of the babies as they transform into adults. The best memories of my life live there. I am always happy to read your work Abby!!! Thank you for being you and for producing such thoughtful pieces. Judi
Im curious- was the chemistry with your husband always this good, from the get go. Or did you have to learn how to have great sex together?
I'd love to share why im asking this (related to my own relationship) but I'm still new to substack and i don't know how much publicity and exposure these posts get.
Elina, I am HONORED by your binge. Thank you for reading me so thoroughly - the highest honor, really.
This is a great question! I should write a whole post about this. But the short response is — no it was not always this good, but it was there, in a way. The metaphor coming to mind is that I could feel there was the raw material, but it was not honed into a true talent. Like there was a tension, a knowingness from the beginning. But it was teenager-like and sometimes not even sexy how it manifested. I could sense that it would be amazing with time, or maybe I didn’t even know that in words, but I knew, you know? And, yes, it’s taken time, talks, etc. to develop into what it is. Like how inside joke develop with friends over time.
Beautiful and sweet. Love and sex with the one we love is the best! And having a family together just deepens it! And on the other side, when our children as young adults begin moving out and we transition back into just being a couple, with that extension of the deep deep love, that too is a brilliant time! Thanks for the writing Abby! It’s always so good! Judi
🥰🥰🥰 I won’t say ‘I can’t wait’ for that stage, because I’d never want to rush through this one, but the way you describe it makes me really stoked to enjoy it, too 🥰🥰🥰 Thanks for reading, as always, Judi!!!
No, never rush through the bliss of the babies as they transform into adults. The best memories of my life live there. I am always happy to read your work Abby!!! Thank you for being you and for producing such thoughtful pieces. Judi
🥰🥹❤️it’s my pleasure. Thanks for making it feel so welcomed.
You are an amazing and novel writer Abby. The world is awakened by your work. Judi
Ok now you’re going to make me cry! Judi, you’re the best. Thank you 😭💫
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Hey Abigail, just me here binging on your posts.
Im curious- was the chemistry with your husband always this good, from the get go. Or did you have to learn how to have great sex together?
I'd love to share why im asking this (related to my own relationship) but I'm still new to substack and i don't know how much publicity and exposure these posts get.
Thanks in advance ❤️
Elina, I am HONORED by your binge. Thank you for reading me so thoroughly - the highest honor, really.
This is a great question! I should write a whole post about this. But the short response is — no it was not always this good, but it was there, in a way. The metaphor coming to mind is that I could feel there was the raw material, but it was not honed into a true talent. Like there was a tension, a knowingness from the beginning. But it was teenager-like and sometimes not even sexy how it manifested. I could sense that it would be amazing with time, or maybe I didn’t even know that in words, but I knew, you know? And, yes, it’s taken time, talks, etc. to develop into what it is. Like how inside joke develop with friends over time.
My vagina hurts just reading the headline lol.
Hahaha I know, right - our minds are so trained to think sex = vagina canal 🤪