How to reconnect with your spouse
A 12-step guide
Surprise, lovely Happy Endings subscribers. I’m in your inbox on a Thursday, as I’ll be every other week, with a Happy Endings praxis.
After this year and a half of me waffling on in personal essay and storytelling format, I thought I’d start sharing useful practices that work in my love life (personal and interpersonal).
PraXXXis will be like My #1 Sex Tip – slightly surprising perspectives on how I seek satisfaction and joy in love, sex, and relationships – but more efficiently delivered. My tried-and-true, personally found and refined techniques, which, frankly, may or may not be useful to you (because you are unique, like me, but not me), but regardless, they will certainly be love-exhibitionistic, and (hopefully) entertaining.
Now, before I go ahead with it all, to kick this off with some fireworks, I’ll give away ten three-month paid subscriptions to the first subscribers to restack this post. (Sorry if that sounds ‘cliche saleswoman’ – I can’t help being who I am.)
Without further ado…
This is my (non)emergency guide for how to reconnect with a partner after a disconnect (i.e., fight, argument, miscommunication, disagreement, etc., etc.).





