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Kate Messinger's avatar

This is so refreshing (and hot!) to read. It’s so true - After mothering all day, I’m just longing to be a whore.

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

🥹😌 this is the best comment I could’ve hoped for on this post. Thank you for reading and saying this 🥲❤️

Philip Gass's avatar

We’ve moved on to the next life chapter, kids old enough to be more independent and requiring less direct care. As Mom and Dad we have so much more energy, and time to ourselves, and we just love spending time together. All the chapters seem to be better than the last.

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

This is the kind of story I LOVE to hear! I’d say I can’t wait, but I don’t want to rush through our current chapter either 🥹🥰 cheers to you and your love, Philip!!

The Wandering Star's avatar

sorry for commenting on all of your posts, I'm new here and just found your profile- I am struggling with this a lot with my partner, even though I'm not a mother. But our relationship started as something incredibly sex-based and with a big power dynamic, and now he finds it harder to fetishise me (even though I want to be!!)

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

Isobel! Um, it’s my absolute pleasure to have you in the comments sections. Never hold back here ❤️

I’m so sorry you’re not feeling admired the way you want. I don’t know you but I’m confident it has nothing to do with anything you’ve done. The good news is you can get back there. But likely, it’ll fully depend on him - if he wants to, he can 💘 In all things, you can help though! Here for advice if you ever need 🙏

Erin Shetron's avatar

holy shit I looooovve this

Douglas S. Pierce's avatar

Loved this so much! For me, I have always loved the idea of my wife as a mother. During her pregnancy, our sex was through the roof, we both loved it. Post-partum, she dealt with the depression that comes for so many, and for her it was years long — we had to seek treatment for her for it.

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

I’m so sorry to hear she went through that (and you, too, as partner) but glad you came through it. And I’m not surprised to know the mother transition was so effortless for you! 🥰 Erotic creativity comes easy to some 😘

Elina's avatar

Sharing this on my twitter because there is too much doom and gloom on the subject! Love hearing a positive experience with you guys

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

🥲 you’re making my day!!

Lidia Parro's avatar

I enjoyed this conversation a lot. Thank you (and your husband too). Even if I am not yet a mother, I could learn a lot from this!

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

I’m so glad you thought so!! Everyone is impacted by the way mothers are viewed, I believe! Thanks for reading and sharing this 🥰

Joanna S's avatar

Ok this was an incredible interview/convo/read!!!!!

Abigail A Mlinar Burns's avatar

🥰 thank youuu! I’m really delighted that you think so. Thank you for reading