After a year and a half of me waffling on in personal essay and storytelling format, I started sharing useful practices that work in my love life (personal and interpersonal).
Meet, Praxxxis!
Praxxxis is like my viral post, My #1 Sex Tip – slightly surprising perspectives on how I seek satisfaction and joy in love, sex, and relationships – but more efficiently delivered. My tried-and-true, personally found and refined techniques, which, frankly, may or may not be useful to you (because you are unique, like me, but not me), but regardless, they will certainly be love-exhibitionistic, and (hopefully) entertaining.
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How to have better sex this week
It’s a lofty claim that I, a (relative) stranger, might be able to impact your sex life.
How to Seduce A Tired Mom
I write about sex because I like sex. But I’m still a human woman who gets tired, and wants someone (my man) to take the lead.
How to reconnect with your spouse
Surprise, lovely Happy Endings subscribers. I’m in your inbox on a Thursday, as I’ll be every other week, with a Happy Endings praxis.
Have a Threesome Lite™
So you don’t have the time to coordinate the physical and emotional logistics of a sexy third-party rendezvous, but you’d like some “more the merrier” erotic excitement? Well, I’ve got a few ideas for you.
If you want to get horny...
One of my favorite feelings is when a rush of arousal hits me. Like getting goosebumps, but inside of you.
5 Activities I Love More Than Penetration
It’s hard to deny my body’s biological desire to reproduce. I’ve written much about my cream pie preoccupation of late (1, 2, 3 (I’m not sorry)).
How to write a love letter
Some people are verbal processors, some are visual, some need to read the instructions. Some people don’t know what they feel until they journal. Some people need to talk things out.
This is more important than sex toys
Buying something to fix a problem is a coping mechanism I’m not unfamiliar with. The whole parenting industrial complex runs off of it. Call it my Midwestern work ethic or my learned, lower-middle-class thriftiness, but I actively fight this impulse.
How I touch myself, nonsexually, when I want to feel sexy
When I want to feel horny but don’t want to meditate on erotic thought-starters while listening to Divinyls and circling my hips like Patrick Swayze, I get non-sexually literal and touch myself.
How to have better sex this summer
The solstice has passed, and here, in Super El Niño USA, we’re on the eve of a holiday weekend. By every metric of time, it’s time for our next seasonal erotic reset.
My role-play secret
The hottest role-play doesn’t involve a nurse costume, step-family trope, or a handiman script. Dressing up as Barbarella is fun, don’t get me wrong, but that superficial play is never as erotic as the sex that excavates your Self.
A 7-Step Guide to Coming Again
When is the last time the woman dearest to you came? Little stifled sneeze orgasms don’t count.
Your erotic assignment: laughter
I once saw a story about a dad dropping their kid off at their boyfriend/girlfriend’s house with a nugget of timely wisdom: “If you’re not laughing during sex, you’re not doing it right.”
Bumping uglies while feeling ugly
I wrote on Monday about fucking ugly people. It was a provocative title to make a point about how culturally influenced status symbols and beauty standards influence sexual attraction. I believe what makes you horny should be more carnal than cerebral. I want my pleasure devoid of propaganda. But regardless of the legitimacy of our individual definitions of ‘ugliness,’ these mental connotations can block our bodies. Or more simply, when I feel ‘ugly,’ it’s harder to get horny.